How do you find new friends and playmates?
Here is our story.

Lets be honest, there are thousands of places and ways to try and connect. I started out in 75' using swingers magazines and contact ads. While dating Kat in the mid 80' we used Swinger Magazines and met wonderful friends along with lots of unanswered letters and lost photos.

When computers moved into our life in the mid 80's we moved on to Adult Bulletin Boards, IRC chat, and BBS parties. We also played in AOL chat rooms. Here we found mostly "wannabe's" who enjoyed the fantasy sex in chat and on line head games, but were either too shy to meet or realized they were not very attractive and could only score on-line. This period was more cyber sex than real meetings. Although we did meet the threesome's of my dreams on Prodigy [miss you Carrie] and on a DC BBS [yes Debbie we still think of you!]

From the beginning we attended swing clubs. We enjoyed the environment. . . but! Face it, if you are at a swing club you are kind of expected to want to get it on, right then and there, when you meet people that seem fun. OK, "I" am a male slut. I do that. [grin] But Kat is a sweetie that likes to get to know people and make friends before rolling in the hay. I can love and leave, but Kat will hold on to you for life! [snicker]

Anyway, how do "we" find new friends now? Here is the honest answer: We still subscribe to and read swingers magazines. On-line we mainly use two swing ad web sites, Adult Friend Finder and SexyAds. We target Adult Friend Finder and SexyAds to met people close to us or in areas we travel to. There are many, many others however. We are doing an evaluation of others now and will post some links and reviews soon. Check back on that!

We also chat with people on ICQ. We use ICQ to find couples and females we may enjoy CU-SeeMe or NetMeeting Video Conferencing with. Video Conferencing is a hoot for exhibitionism and cyber-sex kicked up a notch from chat! [evil grin] We recently tried out the Yahoo conferencing and found it pretty nice. We will add more information about that in a few days also. [get the idea we are doing a lot of work on this site at the moment?]

As I said earlier, there are other contact sites, messengers, and ways to hook up with video fun, but, these are the tools we use. And you can try them all for free yourself. Really.

Sign up with either Adult Friend Finder or SexyAds for free. If you like what you see then join. If not, keep searching for the right place for you. ICQ is free too. You can get CU-SeeMe software from Cornell for free and NetMeeting comes with Internet Explorer! Don't spend money until you try the waters in free areas! Or, so goes the advice from this "cheep" experienced swinger! [grin] Try the links. AND write us to tell us what worked for you!!

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